{"id":92,"date":"2015-10-20T17:07:57","date_gmt":"2015-10-21T01:07:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/?p=92"},"modified":"2015-10-20T17:07:57","modified_gmt":"2015-10-21T01:07:57","slug":"past-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/?p=92","title":{"rendered":"Past lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you haul out the old photos from the box, they<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lie on the table, faded black and white, names written<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on the back long ago, by someone preparing for the day <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">no living friends would summon them over for coffee, <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or offer a ride to the beach. Today your grandson looks <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on as you pull up relations like weeds from some long<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">untended garden. He has the easy part, to hold the edges <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">still, while you decipher faces, unearth connections. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His feet, in long purple sneakers, stretch beneath the table.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One early photo shows his great-grandmother riding<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">her husband\u2019s shoulders. She laughs. Even though you both <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">know she never did in later life, her small face always pinched<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and pruned. The pile seems never ending, one old photo<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">after another. Early autos. A pony. Someone\u2019s calico<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cat. Domestic scenes. The military. The boy never complains,<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">says nothing, until you come to the photo of him as <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an infant, lying against your chest, both of you with eyes <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">closed. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Look at that, <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">he says. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are all asleep.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Published in:<\/p>\n<p><em>Eclectica<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Oct.\/Nov. 2015<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you haul out the old photos from the box, they lie on the table, faded black and white, names written on the back long ago, by someone preparing for the day &nbsp; no living friends would summon them over for coffee, or offer a ride to the beach. Today your grandson looks on as &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/?p=92\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Past lives&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-92","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=92"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":93,"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92\/revisions\/93"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=92"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=92"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/judykaber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=92"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}